Amapolisa kunye noMkomishinala woLwaphulo-mthetho e-Surrey Lisa Townsend wamkele abathathi-nxaxheba abangama-390 kwiwebhunari ekhathazayo yokuxhatshazwa kwasekhaya, ukubulawa kwabantu kunye nenkxaso yexhoba ekuqaleni kwale nyanga, njengoko iintsuku ezili-16 zeZizwe eziManyeneyo zigxile kubundlobongela obujoliswe kwabasetyhini kunye namantombazana zifikelela esiphelweni.
I-webinar ebanjwe yi-Surrey against Domestic Abuse Partnership iquka iintetho ezivela kwiingcali uProf Jane Monckton-Smith weYunivesithi yaseGloucestershire othethe ngeendlela zonke ii-arhente ezinokuqaphela amakhonkco phakathi kokuxhatshazwa kwasekhaya, ukuzibulala kunye nokubulawa, ukuze kuphuculwe inkxaso. kunikezelwa kumaxhoba oxhatshazo kunye neentsapho zabo phambi kokuba ukwenzakala kunyuke. Abathathi-nxaxheba bave kwakhona kuGqr Emma Katz weYunivesithi yaseLiverpool Hope omsebenzi wakhe wokuqala uqaqambisa impembelelo yabenzi bobubi benyanzelo nokulawula ukuziphatha koomama nabantwana.
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, beva kusapho olufelweyo olwathi ngamandla nangentlungu yabelana nabathathi-nxaxheba ngokubaluleka kokubethelela umsebenzi kaNjingalwazi Monckton-Smith noGqr Katz kumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla ukuze kuthintelwe abasetyhini abaninzi ukuba bangabulawa kwaye benzakaliswe. Bacele umngeni kuthi ukuba siyeke ukubuza amaxhoba ukuba kutheni engahambi kwaye sigxile ekubalulekeni kokucela umngeni ekutyholweni kwexhoba kunye nokubamba abenzi bobubi ukuba baphendule.
Yayinentshayelelo evela kuMkomishinala owenze ukuba ukunciphisa ubundlobongela obujoliswe kwabasetyhini kunye namantombazana kube yeyona nto iphambili kumsebenzi wamapolisa. Iofisi yoMkomishinala isebenza ngokusondeleyo kunye nentsebenziswano ukukhusela ukuxhatshazwa kwasekhaya kunye nobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo e-Surrey, kubandakanywa nokunikezelwa kwe-£ 1m kwiinkonzo zendawo kunye neeprojekthi ezincede abasindileyo kunyaka odlulileyo.
Le semina iyinxalenye yothotho lwemisitho ekhokelwa yi-ofisi yoMkomishinala ekunye nentsebenziswano, egxile ekomelezeni uPhononongo lokuBulala kwaMakhaya (i-DHR) oluqhutyelwa ukuchonga ukufunda ukuthintela ukubulawa kwabantu okutsha okanye ukuzibulala eSurrey.
Incedisa ukubethelelwa kwenkqubo entsha yoPhononongo eSurrey, ngenjongo yokuba wonke umbutho uyayiqonda indima abayidlalayo kunye neengcebiso kwizihloko ezibandakanya ukulawula kunye nokuziphatha okunyanzeliswayo, ukufihla ukuxhatshazwa, ukuxhatshazwa kwabantu abadala kunye nendlela abenzi bokuxhatshazwa. banokusebenzisa abantwana njengendlela yokujolisa kwibhondi yobuzali.
Umkomishinala wamaPolisa kunye noLwaphulo-mthetho uLisa Townsend uthe kubalulekile ukwazisa ngekhonkco elixhalabisayo phakathi kokwenzakala okubangelwa kukuphathwa gadalala kunye nowona mngcipheko wokwenyani onokukhokelela ekufeni: “Ukunciphisa ubundlobongela obujoliswe kwabasetyhini kunye namantombazana yinxalenye ephambili yamaPolisa am. kunye neCwangciso loLwaphulo-mthetho lwe-Surrey, ngokunyusa inkxaso efumanekayo kumaxhoba oxhatshazo, kodwa nangokudlala indima ephambili ekuqinisekiseni ukuba sikhuthaza ngokukhutheleyo ukufunda ukuthintela ukwenzakala kumahlakani ethu nakwiindawo esihlala kuzo.
Yiyo loo nto ndivuya kakhulu kuba iwebhunare ibizinyaswe kakuhle. Yayiqulethe ulwazi lweengcali oluya kuba nefuthe elithe ngqo kwiindlela iingcali kulo lonke eli lizwe ezinokusebenzisana namaxhoba okuxhatshazwa ukuchonga inkxaso kwangaphambili, ukuqinisekisa ukuba kukho ugxininiso oluqinileyo kubantwana nabo.
“Siyazi ukuba impatho-gadalala idla ngokulandela umkhwa othile kwaye inokubulala ukuba isimilo somenzi wobubi akuphikiswanga. Ndifuna ukubulela bonke abo babandakanyekayo ekunyuseni ulwazi ngalo mba, kubandakanywa ukuqatshelwa okukhethekileyo kwelungu losapho elabelana ngamava abo ngenkalipho ukunceda ukwazisa ngeli khonkco. "
Iingcali zinoxanduva lokubiza ukutyhola ixhoba njengenye yezona mpazamo zibulalayo kwiimpendulo zethu kubaxhaphazi basekhaya.
UMichelle Blunsom MBE, iCEO ye-East Surrey Domestic Abuse Services kunye noSihlalo weNtsebenziswano eSurrey, uthe: “Kwiminyaka engama-20 andiqondi ukuba ndakhe ndadibana nexhoba lokuxhatshazwa kwasekhaya elingazange lityholwe. Oku kusixelela kona kukuba singabasindi abasilelayo ngokudibeneyo kwaye, ngakumbi, sinyathela inkumbulo yabo bangazange basinde.
“Ukuba sihlala singekho zingqondweni, sibandakanyeke kwaye sidibane nokutyhola amaxhoba senza ukuba abenzi bobubi babonakale ngakumbi. Ukutyhola ixhoba kuthetha ukuba izenzo zabo zilandela oko ixhoba okanye ixhoba bekumele ukuba likwenzile okanye ebekungafanele likwenze. Abenzi bobubi siyabakhulula kuxanduva lokuphathwa gadalala nokufa ngokulubeka ngokuqinileyo ezandleni zamaxhoba ngokwawo – siyababuza ukuba kutheni bengalubhengezanga uxhatshazo olo, kutheni bengasixeleli kwangethuba, kutheni bengazange bahambe. , kwakutheni ukuze bangabakhuseli abantwana, kwakutheni ukuze baphindezele, kutheni, kutheni, kutheni, kutheni?
"Abo baphethe amandla, kwaye ngaloo nto, ndithetha ukuba uninzi lweengcali kungakhathaliseki isikhundla okanye isikhundla, banoxanduva lokungagcini nje ukuvuma ukuba ixhoba lityholwa kodwa liyibize njengenye yezona mpazamo zibulalayo kwiimpendulo zethu kubaxhaphazi basekhaya. . Ukuba siyayivumela ukuba iqhubeke, sinika ukukhanya okuluhlaza kubenzi bobubi bangoku nakwixesha elizayo; ukuba kuya kubakho iseti esele yenziwe yezizathu ezihlala eshelufini ukuze bazisebenzise xa besenza impatho-gadalala kwanokubulala.
“Sinokhetho lokugqiba ukuba sifuna ukuba ngubani njengomntu nanjengengcali. Ndinyanzela wonke umntu ukuba acinge ngendlela afuna ukufaka ngayo igalelo ekupheliseni amandla abo baphuli-mthetho nasekunyuseni umgangatho wamaxhoba.”
Nabani na ozixhalabeleyo ngesiqu sakhe okanye umntu amaziyo angafikelela kwiingcebiso eziyimfihlo kunye nenkxaso kwiinkonzo zeengcali zika-Surrey zokuxhatshazwa kwasekhaya ngokuqhagamshelana nomnxeba woncedo we-Your Sanctuary ku-01483 776822 9am-9pm yonke imihla, okanye ngokutyelela I-website ye-Healthy Surrey kuluhlu lwezinye iinkonzo zenkxaso.
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